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My story ~ Lost on the PGA and European Tours

It is hard to believe that after three years of hard work writing my story, along with Moe Ross, we are finally here.

As some of you may know, I began the journey of writing my story in 2013 as a way of sharing what I have learned about me while traveling on the tour with my former husband, Paul Casey. This story is not about Paul. It’s about what I learned within the context of our relationship. When I began telling the story for this memoir, I had no idea that the writing would help me close the gap between who I was and who I really am. I became deeply aware that my pain could serve a purpose to help others.

Many people have termed my sharing as a brave and courageous act. At first, it was. I had to break through the veils of my public self who had created a dishonest image. As the writing of my story unfolded, the power of sharing our personal stories became more real. I realized how many people, by opening the doors to their recovery from their false self, helped me to be who I am today. I began to feel that the sharing of our stories is a responsible act. I believe it is through the sharing of our stories that I have best learned.

Lost on the PGA and European Tours by Jocelyn Hefner

Within the pages, you will find genuinely sacred moments I shared with Paul on the Tour. I share my most favorite moments and some that made me want to crawl under a rock and fade away. You will also read how I crept out of the darkest of days and learned to embrace my truth in order to live a meaningful life.

My hope is that if there is anyone out there dealing with severe insecurities, perfectionism, addiction to control, and loss of identity, this book will find them and my story will help them feel less alone and offer a way through the darkness.




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Lost on the PGA and European Tours

  • January 7, 2016 - 2:41 pm


    • January 8, 2016 - 6:13 pm

      Jocelyn - Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Anastasia. You are such a kind person and I am grateful to have you in my life. xReplyCancel

  • January 7, 2016 - 8:18 pm

    Joanna Waterfall - CONGRATS JOCELYN you’re an inspiration to so many 🙂 xoxo!ReplyCancel

    • January 8, 2016 - 6:13 pm

      Jocelyn - Thank you so much, Joanna. xxReplyCancel

  • January 8, 2016 - 1:27 am

    Ashley - I always love our time together and it makes my heart so happy that we have had the fun we have and know there will be many more great times together. So proud of you chickie. Hope to meet your little man sometime soon. XoReplyCancel

    • January 8, 2016 - 6:14 pm

      Jocelyn - Ash, you are always in my mind when I journey back to my favorite memories on your. Oh the laughs we had walking miles and miles through rain, heat and freezing wind. We must have walked a hundred miles with each other?! Thank you for your beautiful heart, always willing to love deeper and deeper. Jocelyn xReplyCancel

  • January 8, 2016 - 2:40 am

    Lucy - I’m excited to read your book! Wishing you much success with this launch!ReplyCancel

    • January 8, 2016 - 6:15 pm

      Jocelyn - Thank you, dear Lucy! I hope you enjoy reading it while you are at the beach! Sending you much love, Jocelyn xReplyCancel

  • January 13, 2016 - 9:39 am

    mel - I really look forward to reading this Jocelyn, it sounds like a fascinating story from beginning to the end. Not only is your story a gift but you are also. Biggest hugs and wishing you so much success with this! Mel xReplyCancel

    • January 19, 2016 - 4:36 pm

      Jocelyn - I will be sending it to you soon! Thank you for stopping by, my friend xxReplyCancel

  • January 17, 2016 - 6:35 pm

    Laidback Living | #Laidbacklivingis Weekly Favourite - […] Good evening everyone, how has your weekend been so far? We are experiencing a cold snap over in London at the moment and the gloves and wooly that are currently in use. I just love all the photo’s that are appearing in #Laidbacklivingis at the moment because there is just a large variety of the types of images that are being taken. It just goes to show that Laidback Living means something different to everyone. This weeks favourite was posted by the lovely Jocelyn Hefner from @jocelynhefner who has recently written a memoir called “Lost on the PGA and European Tours” which you can read more about here. […]ReplyCancel

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